ABSTRACT: The simplest model for Riemannian geometry is Euclidean space R^n. Analogously, the simplest model for a Carnot--Caratheodory geometry is a nilpotent Lie group $N$ say, with a few additional properties. The simplest model for a parabolic geometry is a nilpotent Lie group with somewhat different properties. This talk is a survey of various results on the differential geometry of nilpotent Lie groups. Several notions of conformality and quasiconformality are described, together with related regularity and rigidity theorems.